A New Year and A lot of Reflection

Every year end, I post something philosophical to reflect and wrap up the year. We are in turbulent times with a lot of unrest going on around us. We’re headed into uncharted waters with no idea how this will all shake out.

A lot of us are scared.

I promise no politics – but politics is surely affecting our lives both nationally and on personal levels. New laws. Big changes. Hope and shattered hope. Disillusionment and euphoria. We all have our biased feelings – just never forget to put country, family, friends and your faith first. You don’t have to agree on everything. Just remember to practice mutual respect.

Be nice…

I am a born pessimist – born to this mindset. It has been challenging for me to be optimistic. It is how I am hardwired and how I was formed growing up. I was taught good values by great mentors, and I know I was loved growing up.

Call it genetics and conditioning.

Despite all that – I’ve learned how to laugh at myself. It’s a good practice. To get through life – you must have a sense of humor – the ability to laugh it off and find a way to move forward.

I count my blessings every day and give thanks to the Higher Authority who handed me life some 69 years ago. Grateful for a tight wonderful circle of supportive friends and family who’ve stood by me through a whole lot over a lifetime. Enduring friends – you know who you are.

Thank You for your never-ending belief in me.

As we enter 2025, it is best to look at the future with a sense of euphoria and wonderment. It is out there waiting for us even as we face our twilight years.

Old age doesn’t mean dead. Chart your course and never stop dreaming.

Baby Boomers and GEN Xers are arriving at old age and a lot of us don’t like it. It was where our parents and mentors were a lifetime ago. However – there’s a lot to be said for not having a choice. You are growing old and that’s hard to accept. However, growing old means you are still alive – a tough survivor who has weathered the storms and flown out stronger for the tough times when a lot of us are gone from this world. You are still here to know both love and pain. Pain – tough as it is – means you’re still alive. And – when you pass may you have few regrets and know love.

And remember…All Will Be Well…

And finally – I am going to say something that will ruffle a few feathers – but please know it is important. We’ve become too dependent on social media and electronics – both of which I am practicing here. Way too dependent. As we hold our cell phones, tablets, and laptops – we’re missing out on a whole lot. We are missing out in each other. Time passes. So does life.

That said, put down your cell phones, tablets, and laptops and take the time to spend time face-to-face with a friend, loved one, a sibling, or an associate whom you value. You never know when today will be their last – or yours…

Again, my thanks for your love and friendships. Be safe and may you know happiness and good health in 2025. No one knows what’s next – so enjoy every moment. Never forget to say “I Love You.” Hug them and let them know what they mean to you.

Peace Everyone…